The holidays can be both a joyful & stressful time for all families. This can be the case for families of individuals with autism or other neuron-developmental disabilities.
The kids hid the automobile keys-both sets.
We are boycotting the holidays due to over-commercialization.
Here are some actual tips for reducing the hectic-nests & increasing the happiness in your holiday season:
You know your kid’s limits & need to take those in to consideration when setting up your holiday social calendar. Attend the events that are significant & important to you, & make other arrangements for your kid if necessary.
Arrange tiny calm gatherings with relatives & friends. One relative I do know celebrates the holidays with relatives extended relatives members in “shifts.” This way they get to see everyone without overwhelming their kids. They stay in their comfortable familiar surroundings, while relative’s members take turns coming to visit them.
Provide gift ideas. If you are worried about a quantity of the gifts your kid might get this year, try to keep away from the issue by providing relatives members with gift ideas.
Plan ahead. When going to anyone Else’s home for the holidays, make sure you think about your kid’s needs ahead of time. Bring plenty of activities, snacks, books, clothing, etc. that will help them feel comfortable & keep them occupied.
While there will always be some people, relatives members included, who don’t understand the necessity for accommodations, most people need to be supportive.
The holidays are supposed to be a time of peace, joy, & happiness. Don’t sacrifice those things for yourself & your kid by accommodating everyone else.